I can understand that. It’s nice to be able to draw whatever, but I like to do that out in the open, not on a furry site. I shouldn’t have to apologize to my general crowd for drawing things they might not want to see as long as I’m considerate enough to make sure it’s properly marked/in the right spot.
And it does suck to be kinda drowned in obscurity. The only solution is getting a lot better so people notice you.. and that takes a lot of work. Or I guess you could stick to a small community too, like that. There’s lots of approaches, and it’s shitty it’s so hard to find really talented people sometimes (sorry if this got a little off topic)