DONT HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO MAKE YOU FEEL BAD!!! DONT HANG OUT WITH PEOPLE WHO MAKE YOU FEEL BAD!!! YOU DONT FUCKING OWE YOUR FRIENDSHIP TO ANYONE! YOU CAN DROP THEM IF YOU WANT TO DROP THEM AND YOU DONT OWE THEM AN EXPLANATION AND FUCK THEM IF THEY HOUND AFTER YOU DEMANDING ONE! ITS YOUR LIFE NOT THEIRS, FUCK THEM, SERIOUSLY.
LOYALTY IS GOOD WHEN THE PERSON HAS EARNED YOUR LOYALTY, IF THEY ARE MAKING YOU FEEL BAD FOR ANY REASON, AFTER A CERTAIN POINT THEY HAVE FORFEITED THEIR RIGHT TO YOUR LOYALTY
SERIOUSLY
SOMETIMES YOU REALLY DONT NEED TO EXPLAIN YOURSELF
it kind of sucks, though, when someone does something to make you feel horrible, you say as much, and suddenly they make you out to be the bad guy for making them “feel bad” because you’ve called them out
i know this isn’t about situations like that but delusional people can easily interpret it that way