oh man I’m not sure where it’d be because i’ve actually talked about and reblogged things on that multiple times haha :( I’m sorry for that, if i could tag asks as they happen instead of editing maybe it’d be tagged but i just don’t tag them because it’s inconvenient to
but just based on what you’ve said, you should consider what’s important: you being friends with someone who is treating you poorly, or you being friends with people who treat you with respect. every single time i’ve been in a friendship where someone treated me poorly, i had to cut it off because otherwise i was just angry and upset all the time for really no good reason! don’t let the person guilt trip you - you have the power to just end it wordlessly if you feel the person won’t be able to redeem themselves. do what makes you happiest and what’ll help you get through this - don’t worry about “oh but if we stop being friends, that person will be unhappy..” because that’s a really bad reason to be friends with someone, etc